The Real Talk on Self-Defense: Beyond Clichés and Misconceptions
When it comes to self-defense, it’s easy to get caught up in catchy phrases and regurgitated advice that feels good to say but holds little weight under scrutiny. One such saying that has been bandied about with much gusto, but deserves a critical look, is “I’d rather be judged by 12 than carried by six.” At first blush, this maxim seems to embody the staunch, take-no-prisoners attitude that one might assume is necessary for effective self-defense. However, upon closer examination, we find that this mindset is not only simplistic but can be dangerously misleading. The Dangers of Oversimplification Self-defense is a complex avatar that encompasses a multitude of scenarios, each with its unique set of circumstances and variables. Reducing the intricate dance of decisions, actions, and consequences to a binary choice is not just an oversimplification; it’s an abdication of our responsibility to understand the nuanced reality of self-defense. Icy Mike from the YouTube channel Hard2Hurt challenges this cliché, pointing out rightly that the realms of possibility in a self-defense situation extend far beyond being either judged or carried. The false dichotomy ignores the very real potential of avoiding harm or legal complications altogether – an option that deserves much more attention than it gets. Knowledge Is Power Understanding the legalities surrounding self-defense is paramount. It’s not uncommon for individuals to feel overwhelmed by the perceived complexity of self-defense laws, leading to a fatalistic attitude that there’s little one can do to navigate these waters safely and legally. This mindset is not only defeatist but fundamentally flawed. The reality is that while self-defense laws do vary by location, they are not the incomprehensible maze some make them out to be. They are designed around the principle of reasonableness – a standard we’re all capable of understanding and adhering to with some education and common sense. Yet, there’s a gap between acknowledging the importance of understanding self-defense laws and actually acquiring that knowledge. Here, Mike directs his viewers to consider resources like the USCCA (United States Concealed Carry Association) that offer education, training, and liability insurance for lawful self-defense. By proactively seeking out information and resources, individuals can prepare themselves not just physically but legally for the unfortunate eventuality of a self-defense scenario. The Role of Training and Preparation The idea that becoming proficient in self-defense is solely about physical readiness is another myth that needs dispelling. While physical preparedness is undoubtedly important, it is but one piece of the puzzle. Mental preparation, understanding of the law, and situational awareness are equally crucial. This holistic approach to self-defense training ensures that one is not only capable of defending themselves physically but can also navigate the aftermath of a self-defense incident without unnecessary legal complication. **Concluding Thoughts** The axiom “I’d rather be judged by 12 than carried by six,” while catchy, does a disservice to the complexity and gravity of self-defense. True empowerment comes from a deeper understanding of one’s legal rights and responsibilities, comprehensive preparation, and the wisdom to recognize that the best self-defense strategy is one that seeks to avoid conflict altogether. As we navigate our journey in self-defense, let’s strive for a balanced approach that respects the nuances of law, ethics, and personal safety. In the end, self-defense is about protecting life – not just our own, but also respecting the boundaries and rights of others in our shared communities. Let’s step beyond clichés and embrace the multifaceted reality of self-defense, ensuring we’re prepared, knowledgeable, and, most importantly, reasonable in our approach.Blablabla
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I like the neither option….
"They're saying it because they're an idiot."
I hit like
Thought provoking stuff. I've got better tools than the Dollar Store. Suit up and let's fix us a satellite dammit.
I would rather have a lovely cup of tea
With toast
I am hungry now 🤔 what the heck he saying again?
As a teacher, I’ve rarely seen someone cover all points/counter points so effectively and comprehensively. We’ll done Mike!
Any place where "reasonableness" is the only metric for deciding whether or not lethal force in self defense was justified will ALWAYS get you thrown in prison. Because the people judging you more often than not have never been in any real danger, have an obsession with state authority, and do not comprehend personal responsibility to ones safety. I.e. the "could've shot them in the leg" people. So yeah, it absolutely matters where your from, and the fine details matter absolutely.
You forgot about age.
Im 64 , 145 lbs – if someone attacks me its a or b, 12 or 6. Ive had it once when I was 58 and got attacked at night – they(!) quickly worked out I was going for 12 ! I was lucky though.
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I am a lawyer in England. I practise civil law, but I had to learn about criminal law as part of my training, and I want to share a story regarding this issue.
During my training, I had to attend a sentencing hearing. The story went as follows: the Defendant (“D”) had been walking down the street in London with his girlfriend, minding his own business, whereupon a local gang member (“C” for “complainant”) punched D in the face for walking in his “turf.” D did not defend himself there and then, but instead went home, got some acid, came back and threw the the avid in C’s face.
Now… admittedly, this was not self-defence per se. Rather, it was a revenge attack. But stay tuned.
The Judge imposed a suspended prison sentence on D, then D left the dock and my fellow students and I were able to ask the Judge questions.
I asked the Judge whether C had also been charged. After all, he had also committed a crime, and an unprovoked one at that. The judge laughed, said he “had to expect that people would start fights with him in this day and age” (which to me is like saying “she was asking for it by wearing that short skirt”) and said police typically arrested the winner of the fight because it wouldn’t be in the public interest for CPS (translation: DA’s office) to press charges against the loser. He asked the court clerk, who was a former copper, whether he agreed, and he did.
I was astounded, but my fellow students, both of whom planned on practising criminal, took this in their stride. “I understand why D got prosecuted,” I said, “you can’t have vigilante justice etc. But the idea that the guy who punched him in the face in front of his girlfriend for no reason other than walking in what he deemed to be “his” turf is just barmy to me.” Let’s just say… they told me to stick to civil law.
As stated above, I appreciate that this was not self defence per se. But, based on the comments made by the judge and ex-police court clerk, it seemed that they were ok with the idea that the guy who wins the fight is the one who gets arrested and then prosecuted, which still applies here. Even if he successfully argues self-defence in the end and thus gets acquitted, he was still arrested, charged and possibly held on remand, all the while terrified about what might happen to him (and possibly his family); meanwhile, his attacker faced no consequences at all.
Carried by six or judged by 12 or I just kill everyone 👌🙏🧐
Marc macyoung made a good point: people will claim “self defense” when it was actually “escalating a situation into violence”
My doubt is, how many punches from someome with the same weight do we have to take to be legal to use my knife? What about pepper spray or stun gun in the same situation? 0, 1, 20?
Not everyone lives in the US of A. Some people in fact dont. 😉
You still did not provide a single situation in which this mentality is wrong. You did not explain WHY it is wrong, what harm can 8t do, and Yes, it would be done best on examples. I dont kmow, if you meant people using this minusem are too aggressive? Too trigger happy? Or what exactly do they do wrong? Not usefull info if you cant Tell me what to do with it.
(Not ME as i dont live in a free country where you can own firearms reasonably and where self defence works reasonably, but your fellow americans watching)
Cringe !!!!! Ok nvm 😂 mikes videos are always so fun you need more exposure bro!
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Maybe laws that are supposed to be followed by everybody shouldn't be written in ways that are hard for the average person to interpret without a lawyer or one or more experts…
the USCCA sparring makes me wanna see you and Detroit Urban Survival Training go at it lmao
Boys just want to kill people; men realize how important life is and try to wait until the very last second to take a life.
I thought six months was enough if it's as a montage.
For those in WA, sign up for US Law Shield instead, as USCCA and NRA Carry Guard are not allowed in the state. The state views these latter two as 'murder insurance'
But Mike the bigger question.. how do u know my aunt Debbie
UK, actually, it is Necessary and Reasonable this is a principle of law.
4 example, in Spain self defense laws are clear. It´s needed to suffer an illegal agression, defend racionally and the attacker musn´t be provoked by the defender
I'd rather by raped by 12 then raped by 6.
I’ve always heard the phrase used in connection with concealed carry in areas or cities where it is illegal to carry but people do anyway.
Your experience of self defense in the US does not apply in the UK. We basically no longer have a right to self defense. If there's someone literally thrusting a knife into your stomach you still can't punch them.
I kept waiting on an explanation or some follow-up on what said laws were if they were simple enough but all I got was more analogies and explaining what a logical fallacy was.
Well, that and I feel like I just watched a long 12 minute ad about some guy's gym and USCCA.
When I was growing up the boys I went to school with would hunt before coming to school that morning. A lot of those boys had gun racks in the back glass of their truck. None of us had ever heard of a school shooting and weren’t afraid of all the guns around, knives, etc. Fast forward to all of us growing up having kids of pwn and grandkids….. It seems like every time you turn around there’s a news headline about some asshole coming inside some public place and shooting multiple individuals. When I was growing up there were very few gun laws. My kids and grandkids era, there’s way more laws! If they came to school with a rifle in the back glass of their truck, all hell would break loose! I think a whole lot more people need to take on the attitude of I’d rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6! All these new laws have fucked everything up to the point that good people are afraid to conceal carry or open carry anymore! We need more good people with guns and less bad people with guns! If the good people start eliminating the bad ones, maybe all these damn criminals will think twice before attempting to shoot innocent people! When an active shooter comes out there’s no time to wait for authorities and all these so called gun professionals to arrive! Get a gun, and learn and know how to use it! At least then you have a chance to not be the one carried out in a body bag! All these innocent people loosing their lives is fucked up! If people like me are idiots for believing this way so be it! We don’t want to kill anybody, we don’t want to be be judged by twelve or carried by 6! But by God we don’t want to be killed or watch our family and friends get killed by psychotic assholes either! .
The definition of "reasonable" most certainly changes from state to state especially when that definition comes from an elected official.
Getting judged by twelve drastically increases your chances of being carried by six, lol
What if you happen to be a convicted felon but completely changed your lifestyle for the better and happen to be a great human being and have a family, but know that bad people from the past want to kill you and you know for a fact they will if they find you, yet you can't move and can't legally carry a firearm to protect yourself, should that person just get a gun off the streets or an illegal firearm, will they still go to prison if it genuinely was self defense or would they only get charged with the gun charge?!
Joke's on you, Mike. I'm totally forming my opinion based on what you're saying.
The context in which I say it is because I live in Canada and we have no semblance of stand your ground or castle doctrine.
Law here is proportional force and yes that includes home invasions. The reason I say it is because if my home gets broken into at night by strangers I am not going to take the time to assess the situation and decide whether or not force is justified. As far as im concerned they have the capacity to be a lethal threat, and trying to determine if they are before reacting could get me or my family killed. So my reaction will be immediate and overwhelming force with anything on hand.
If that makes me an idiot so be it but I will not play with my mom or sisters life